I met Jose at Joe's house when they moved from California to harbor town in lake St Louis back in the 80s... They were some of the greatest people that I had met in along time had a blast with these guys then a couple of years later I find joe had died and Jose moved to Lincoln county.... and then years later married my girl Pammy one of my besties for years... Thank God she got away from that asshole she was with... I was so happy for the both of them... Then I find out she has cancer.. My dumb ass goes to prison she dies while I'm in prison totally devastated me went to visit Jose when I got out... Then I hear he has cancer.... Then 2 days ago I got Jose's message about his pop ... Life goes by so fast.... Be kind love one another...poppa Joe.. You will be truly missed tell Pam I said hi and I love her